I'm 27 work full time, and train in Martial arts 4-5 days/week...watoido for a little love.?

Ladies help me out!I've completely turned my life around for the better,and it seems that the nicer I've become the harder it is to find a nice girl...Maybe I'm not materialistic enough,or don't act like a jerk enough, or treat a lady w/ respect, and allow them to be the aggressor,or maybe my hair isn't spikey enough and my muscles aren't juiced up...but I'l tell you one kick to the nuts %26amp; all that dissapears...if there's any balls there to begin with.Not to offend or stereotype,but are there any decent girls that hangout in clubs,that I can approach w/o them thinking I'm oozing machesmo.I'm about as honest as it gets...Is there some places on long Island where singles meet to have a good time that don't involve juicehead infested people...I like girls that can handle a nice opened minded conversation...w/o drama.I'm not ugly I'm about 6'1" 170lbs and live to train in My Martial arts.I have hair on my chest,and don't wax my chest 'cause i decided tobecomeAman.PleaseReplyPreferablyLady

I'm 27 work full time, and train in Martial arts 4-5 days/week...watoido for a little love.?
I think your prob just looking to hard. Believe me most girls want the nice guy not a jerk though it may seem like we do at times, its not true! I don't really know Long Island that well so i can;t help ya there, but maybe friends of friends, or bars?! You sound like your together so u should be fine!! Good luck!!!
Reply:Your problem is you are a martial arts geek, you spend too much time between that and work. Any woman would be a fool to start up with you, you don't have any time for them. Guys who are single focused like you and not well balanced and not much fun. Prioritize your life and it will get better.