Our son has started to go against everything weve ever taught him,he wont do anything we ask him to do,?

he does nothing in the house to help.His mam %26amp; i arent very mobile, his mam suffered a heart attack a few years ago and hasnt been her old self since.Hes 15 now and has been training since he was 6 years old,doing martial arts,6 different types,and now hes boxing which he started about 6 months ago.This takes most of his spare time up.


Hes always been a bit of a handful,very strong willed but basically a good kid.In the past when we've had to chastise him for doing something wrong he got so aggressive and said some really nasty hurtful things,but later hes been full of remorse.More recently though he seems to be getting more aggressive,actually fronting up to me,shouting and arguing about anything.We know that on the odd occasion he has been drinking,%26amp; after which he reacts like a madman,shouting %26amp; balling at us,in the street or anywhere.My wife is beside herself when he gets like this,worried that something bad might happen to him.We've tried both the soft %26amp; the tough approach.

Our son has started to go against everything weve ever taught him,he wont do anything we ask him to do,?
He's a rebellious teen eh?





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Reply:beat the motha@#@#
Reply:Welcome to the life of having a teenage boy! Buckle up it'll be a long ride..
Reply:He has become lost for a while.he will come back....Usually the martial arts types respect the sensi*teacher)..................talk to him..he might be able to straighted him out.........
Reply:i guess it's time to do NOTHING. Let him be. in his age, he feels he's always right and e will not listen to anyone, most especialy to his parents. Let him do what he wants, but just give him enough proof, that when something bad happens you'll be there for him. YOu might even have to just ignore him at times. At age 14 to 16, they don't want to be told about anything, cuz they're always sure about themselvs. it will just pass. if he's in a mood to have a conversation, fine, but limit it to just the positive things he has done. NEVER CONFRONT HIM ABOUT THE NEGATIVES.
Reply:He is "coming of age" just like my boy.I would recommend you to stop talking and start listening.Over-parenting at this young mans age is only going to make him rebel.I teach my boy to think about what he says and does and to protect everyone around him by thinking about his actions and how they will impact not just himself but everyone around him.Take him fishing mom!Take him hunting dad!Most of all,respect him!Good luck!!
Reply:The tough years when the offspring come to believe they actually know better than their parents. Love wins. Never give up, never surrender. Tell the Mrs. to be strong and keep talking to him. When all is calm and good, have a nice peaceful conversation.





The stories I love to hear today are the ones where adults confess to being a bad teenager, and would have ended up in the wrong place had it not been for loving parents who never gave up.
Reply:he is a teenager. they typically go through a rebillous phase between the ages of 13 and 18. He is just acting the way most teens do. The phase should pass pretty soon. It takes time. Just be supportive of him and don't dwell on the negative stuff.
Reply:if you allow this behavior it is only going to get worse.





counseling is certainly called for.





military school or foster care if he starts to get dangerous.
Reply:Hes going through a puburty and all he wants is attention and love. make sure you tell him that you love him and go on a trip uno like a family trip it could be just going to a day at a park, eventually he will open up i know it's hard but it will work! Just dont be all over your boy 24/7 but just watch him from a distance and see how it progesses. Make him feel like your freind to him even though you want to just kick his ***., that will only make it worse. Make sure at least one meal family gets toghter and eats toghter like dinner time. GoodLuck!!!

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