Shouldn't you stand up for your woman?

My problem started 2 weeks ago when I was out walking with my girlfriend and a group of 3 guys started heckling her because she has a lazy eye on one side. I have a lot of martial arts training and basically beat them up pretty badly - one guy had a skull fracture apparently I found out later. But instead of being happy that I did this for her honor, my girlfriend seems to be frightened of me now. She kind of flinches whenever I move quickly etc. How do I solve this?

Shouldn't you stand up for your woman?
Yes, you should stand up and protect her but what you done scares girls off because we want a guy that will let us fight our own battles but protect us at the same time. The best way to solve your problem is to sit down and tell her that you were only trying to protect her and that she can trust you and love to be around you because you know how to treat a woman/girl. Tell her that she can be around you and not have to worry about people messing with her and that you will try to stop being so over-protective because you realized that what you done was too dramatic but you were only trying to protect her because she's your girlfriend.





best of luck to the both of you.
Reply:lol- stroke her gently
Reply:It is tough being you, isn't it Chuck Norris?
Reply:you did the right thing. you are a great boyfriend. tell your girlfriend you would never hurt her, just her enemies.
Reply:Dude, there is standing up for her and then there is what you did...I'm not sure what I would call it. I know you probably meant well. It's just that you went overboard.








PS: That answer was delivered in case you really are seriously telling the truth. I have doubts that you are...I cannot imagine anyone being that obtuse? or...that malicious all the while wondering why she would be scared of you?
Reply:talk to her about it. let her get out what ever it is she is thinking
Reply:Your girlfriend was probably frightened that you were so violent. Just give her compliments and show her respect when others are cruel. Knowing that you are willing to be by her side at all times when buddies or strangers say things is a compliment in itself.
Reply:Girls don't want you to be Mr. Macho they just want you to stand up for their honor as in taking her side on things, telling them jerks off. It depends you can apologize to her and explain to her why you beat them up, don't give her no sap story just the truth. Girls really like it when their guys stand up for them that shows how much respect they have for us females. Besides beating them up I think you showed her that you really respect her, Props To You!! But it might take a while maybe something happened to her in her past that makes her frightened of violent acts. Maybe you two should sit down and have a long talk..
Reply:hmmmm just explain to her that u were just protecting her. and she shouldnt be afraid of u cos u'll neva hurt her. i'm mad i mis'd the beat down....................lol gd job.
Reply:I know this is a difficult time for you. I would inform her that you have control over yourself. Give her time and continue to let her see your sensitive side. Take care and hang in there.
Reply:If you karate chop her right in the temple you should take away all of her recent memory and she will forget about the whole thing. j/k what you should really do is just talk to her and tell her that you would never hurt her and that you did it to protect her.
Reply:It's one thing to stand up for your woman and quite another to nearly commit homicide because someone said something about her eye. What would have happened if they had actually touched her? Your girl is afraid because she does not know what might set you off. You are like a powder keg in a kitchen. Get anger management treatments. Tell her you are doing this. Maybe then she will begin to feel comfortable around you again.
Reply:First of all I completely understand why you did that to those guys, but it doesn't mean that she understands. Let her know that you did it because you got mad and what to teach to guys a lesson. Also that you wanted to protect her and her feelings. Still, you shouldn't go beating up everyone that says something to ur gf.
Reply:you are such a sweetheart, but if you know martial arts you should know that it only for protection when you are getting beaten up, not heckled at. Tell her that you were only protecting her and that you didnt meant to take it that far with them it was only to teach them a lesson. Tell her you would never do this to her as you love her to much to hurt her and thats why you did that in the first place was because you dont like to see her hurt. apologise for your behaviour and say it wont happen again. Take her out to a nice restaurant or some where nice, get her some flowers maybe.